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Man Who Is Heteroflexible Reveals How Ethical Non-Monogamy Impacts His Relationships
The heteroflexible man broke off his long-term relationship after fantasizing about non-monogamy.
When it comes to alternative relationship dynamics – there’s a lot to unpack.
Between polyamory, open relationships, ethical non-monogamy, and everything in between, it’s no surprise that people tend to get a little confused.
But one man chose to ditch life with his long-term partner, in order to live out a fantasy he had been contemplating for quite some time.
Chase, a 30-year-old writer from Barcelona, Spain, describes himself as ‘heteroflexible.’
But what exactly does it mean?
Well, it means he’s heteros**ual, but will sometimes feel a s**ual connection to people of the same s** as him.
He noted that he was never ‘fully content’ with just one partner, and had fantasized about relationships with ‘s**ually liberated older women,’ – to be specific.
Chase added: “My past relationship with my ex was extremely healthy and wholesome but I was never fully content and I often felt I was missing out.”
After splitting with his partner, he began to explore the world of ethical non-monogamy, which is where all parties agree to pursue more than one relationship.
Speaking to the Metro, he said: “Now I’m living those dreams, with not just one, but several women.”
Having been ‘heteroflexible’ for the last three years, he’s now learnt how to manage multiple relationships, and how each connection impacts the other.
“Since turning my back on monogamy, working out has become crucial for my s** life,” he noted.
“Keeping up with multiple women, some of whom might only be s**ually active with me, requires strength and stamina. All my partners know I’m ENM though, so there’s no issue there.
“I like to take control in bed, and having muscles gives me both the confidence and the physicality to play the role of stud.”
He also explained how is time is split between different people.
Chase said: “Despite some people’s preconceptions about non-monogamy, I value quality over quantity when it comes to s**, and I always try to keep a day free between lovers to make sure I can perform at my best each time.”
The 30-year-old added: “Instead, I see friends in the evening after work and then get a solid night’s rest.”
But when it comes to knowing who is right for him, Chase has learned to ‘listen to and trust’ his ‘gut instinct.’
“There’s simply no point pursuing a connection if you’re no longer feeling it,” Chase added.
There are two main women that Chase splits his time between, but noted that he is also open to ‘whoever else life throws his way.’
Describing his arrangements with one of the women, he said: “We’ve been seeing each other roughly once a week for about two years now.
“It’s a satisfying arrangement that provides intimacy, great s** and pleasant dates without commitment.”
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