Renowned adult star Riley Reid has recently shared the most attractive thing a man can do in the bedroom.
One of the adult entertainment industry’s most recognizable figures, Reid has used social media and podcast interviews to offer insight into her life and career.
In a candid discussion, Reid shared the one tip she thinks every man should follow in the bedroom.
Known for her outspoken nature on various podcasts, Reid, 33, has built a following not only for her career accomplishments but also for her openness in discussing personal and industry-related challenges.
With over 2.1 million followers on Instagram and an extensive list of awards, Reid (whose real name is Ashley Matthews) is recognized beyond the adult industry.
In a conversation on the Pillow Talk podcast, Reid offered advice on what makes a man attractive in the bedroom, based on her own experiences.
In past interviews, Reid has opened up about the difficulty of maintaining relationships, often facing judgment because of her career.
She described how an ex-partner’s refusal to kiss her after work left her feeling ‘like a disgusting person,’ adding: “I’m not disgusting! It’s harsh. It was so horrible when he told me that.”
These experiences led Reid to question if she could find love while remaining in the industry.
She also shared on the Impaulsive podcast how certain partners gave her ultimatums, saying: “I’ve dated guys that were like ‘Me or p***?’ and I was like, ‘p*** never gave me this ultimatum, so I choose that.’”
Reflecting on her career’s impact, Reid has been open about how it has strained her personal life, especially with family.
She once noted in a clip that has also resurfaced on X (formerly known as Twitter): “A lot of times when people ask me if they should do p***, I tell them no. I tell them that it makes life really hard, it makes dating really hard, it makes your family life really hard, it makes intimacy hard. You have to be OK with being shamed every day of your life.”
Due to these challenges, Reid has a strained relationship with her mother and father, which she has attributed to boundaries and disapproval of her career.
She revealed how difficult it was when her father declined to meet publicly, saying, ‘I don’t want to be seen in public with you,’ which she found deeply painful.
Recently, Reid explained that while she hasn’t left the industry entirely, she has chosen to stop filming boy-girl scenes, which were central to her early career.
She discussed this decision on Jordyn Jones’ What They Don’t Tell You podcast, explaining how fame complicated her dating life, as many potential partners first saw her as ‘Riley’ rather than her real self, Ashley Matthews.
“I didn’t retire but I just stopped shooting boy-girl p***… It was a choice I made on my own but I made that choice because I was lonely and I wanted love and affection and stuff.”
Reid isn’t alone in reflecting on the challenges of the industry. Other adult film stars, such as Lana Rhoades and Mia Khalifa, have also been vocal about the personal impact of their careers.
But now, Reid shared her take on what she finds most appealing in a man’s approach to intimacy.
“I personally like to start with clothes on,” she explained. “I don’t think that you should come in and start butt a** naked – like, drop your towel bulls***. There’s no f***ing foreplay or anything to play with.”
Reid emphasized the importance of building anticipation, adding a bit of humor: “I can’t tease you with your socks or anything. Like, maybe I’ll take them and shove them in my mouth.”
Beyond her tips on setting the right mood, Reid also shared what men should avoid: “Avoid any of the hyper-stimulating areas until almost the last possible moment, because that will get them so excited that they’re going to be like, ‘f***ing touch me.’”
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