Woman Admits Boyfriend Is Threatening To Dump Her Over Rude Grinch Fantasy
A woman who likes the Grinch an unusual amount has admitted her boyfriend is threatening to dump her over her saucy fantasy.
The woman’s predicament gained public attention on the Phamily Standards Podcast, as the hosts tried to remain professional while reading her confession.
The admission read: “I have a Grinch fetish. My boyfriend knows about this and, for the most part, accepts it. He’ll sometimes read the book to me to set the mood, or if he’s really feeling kinky, he’ll tell me, ‘You’re a mean one.'”
But the woman’s desires go beyond storytelling, as she admitted to fantasizing about intimate scenarios involving the green, furry, and pot-bellied creature.
Although her boyfriend attempted to accommodate her unconventional desire, his discomfort reached a breaking point, leading to a serious ultimatum.
The tipping point came when the woman’s requests escalated to her asking the boyfriend to dress as the Grinch and stage a playful, albeit peculiar, kidnapping.
She detailed her wish for him to ‘kidnap me from my bed on Christmas Eve and then ravage me in front of the Christmas tree.’
Her boyfriend refused, calling the idea ‘too weird.’ Then he issued an ultimatum: drop the fetish or face the end of their relationship.
The woman sought advice on Reddit, where responses were divided but largely critical of her approach, as some felt her demands showed a lack of consideration for her partner’s comfort.
One person weighed in: “It sounds like SHE is the one that needs to compromise – why does he always have to play into that?”
Another chimed in: “You can’t force someone out of their comfort zone and then give them an ultimatum.”
Several others pointed out the imbalance in their relationship, questioning whether the woman had ever reciprocated efforts to fulfill her boyfriend’s desires.
A Redditor advised: “If you have a kink, you need a partner who shares or is at least okay about participating in that kink. You need to respect HIS needs, too – I’m not seeing any give in this, only take.”
Another added: “It doesn’t matter how harmless or common you think it is. It is never OK to pressure someone into a s**ual activity that makes them uncomfortable.”
Amid the criticism, the woman maintained that she didn’t want to lose her boyfriend, stating: “I don’t want to lose him over this, but it’s really hard for me to see past it, especially during the Christmas season.”
She also asked the online community for suggestions on how they could compromise or whether she should seek a partner more aligned with her desires.
While some people expressed surprise or amusement at the woman’s Grinch-related fantasies, others highlighted the broader issue: the need for partners to respect each other’s limits.
As one commenter aptly noted: “If this is a dealbreaker for you, move on, but don’t try to pressure anyone – that’s not OK.”
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