Ryan Wilks
A man is going viral online after breaking down why women don’t like ‘nice guys’.
‘Nice guy’ is an informal term that is frequently used to describe a man who is agreeable, gentle, sensitive and vulnerable.
Despite these positive qualities, the term is often used negatively, as it can be suggested that this type of man is unassertive.
The opposite of a ‘nice guy’ is someone who is sometimes referred to as ‘macho’, a man who doesn’t have a kind and sensitive side.
One guy on TikTok has explained why women often don’t go for the ‘nice guys’.
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TikToker @cyzorstudio has revealed that there’s a ‘problem’ with being a nice guy – and that the issue is that you’re supposed to be nice in the first place.
He explains: “Expecting women to want you because you’re a nice guy, it’s like expecting women to want you because you shower regularly.
“You shower regularly, right? At some point during your childhood, somebody told you that if you want a girl to like you, all you have to do is be nice to them.”
The TikToker goes on to say that ‘you need more than’ being a decent person to attract a woman.
He continues: “Let me break this down for you. If you’re feeling bitterness, that means you feel like you deserve something and you didn’t get it, right?
“You feel like you deserve her, right? Because you’re so nice, yeah? No, stop being entitled.
“That’s not how any of this works. Sometimes you’ll put your best foot forward and someone still won’t like you because they just don’t like you. That’s life. Being bitter about it is childish. Move on.”
@hotmamashida #duet with @cyzorstudio Spend less time trying to be a nice guy and more time trying to become a good man! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 #niceguy #goodman #dobetter ♬ original sound – Cyzor
Viewers have been quick to rush to the comments and share their opinion on the matter, with one person penning: “If you have to tell people you’re a ‘nice guy’… you’re not really a good person.”
Another user agrees, commenting: “Sign of weak character, to stand on the ‘nice guy’ platform.”
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While somebody else has taken to the comments and branded the TikToker ‘a gift to the internet’ for his wise words.
“This may be the most accurate thing I’ve seen on IG ever,” another person enthuses.
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