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Dating Expert Shares Three Things Men Will Do If They’re Really Interested In You

Dating expert Benjamin Daly shares the three ways to know if a man is interested in you.
Credit: @benjamindaly/TikTok

A dating expert and coach has revealed the three things a man will do that prove he’s truly interested in you.

The world of dating can be an absolute minefield.

For one thing, you’ve got to avoid the awful dating trends that seem to keep springing up, like dexting (dating solely through text message), vulturing (being friends with someone in the hopes their relationship will fail), or even zombie-ing (ghosting, then coming back from the dead every few months).

But aside from that, it’s still just super tricky to figure out if someone is actually interested in you or not.

Luckily, though, a dating coach has revealed all…

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UK-based coach and content creator Benjamin Daly has taken to TikTok to share his secrets.

On the platform, he boasts over a million followers, so he’s got to be doing something right!

Daly uses his platform to share behind-the-scenes secrets about the dating world, but one of his videos, in particular, has gained a lot of attention this week.

He’s shared the three things that a man will do that conclusively prove he is interested in you, and it’s left the internet dumbfounded…

One writes: “This made me cry, but it’s a process I need to accept.”

Another adds: “Wow. Realising no one was interested.”

A third points out: “Well he calls every day but my anxiety just tells me he doesn’t like me!”

“If he really likes you he won’t give up on you easily,” another agrees.

While a fifth simply states: “When you know, you know.”

Benjamin Daly
The dating expert has shared signs a guy is definitely interested in you. Credit: @benjamindaly/TikTok

What really shocked everyone about Daly’s dating tips was how straightforward and obvious they seemed.

The video has since been liked 60,000 times and has over 2,500 shares.

He says: “If a guy likes you, he does this.

“He makes it obvious through consistent action. He calls you, he texts you, he makes plans to see you.

“If he’s not interested, you’ll be confused. It’s that simple.”

Many drew attention to how obvious it can seem.

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The three things that prove a guy likes you are just being called, being texted, and spending time together!

However, some think Daly has oversimplified things in his short clip.

One writes: “Unless they’re a weak man and don’t know how to pursue an actual confident woman!”

While another remembers: “He did all those things, but all of a sudden he disappeared without leaving any trace… what is that?”

A third agrees, sharing: “Then why did he leave me for another woman? Yet still texts, calls and arranges to meet up with just me (we have kids).”

“I also had this happen and he was also love bombing me and hiding a double life so…,” reminisces another.

@benjamindaly If a guy likes you, he does this… #datingtip #datingadvice ♬ original sound – Benjamin Daly

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Written by Annie Walton Doyle

Annie Walton Doyle is a content editor at IGV who specialises in trending, lifestyle and entertainment news. She graduated from Goldsmiths, University of London, with a degree in English Literature. Annie has previously worked with organisations such as The Huffington Post, The Guardian, The Telegraph, Harvard University, the Pulitzer Prize and 22 Words.